Stark Raving Mad

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January 2011

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Laundry, Youtube, and People Watching

I am sitting at the local laundromat, listening to my favorite music on Youtube through their epically awesome wi-fi connection (20mb/s down! WOOT!), and wondering about the human condition. Maybe it’s just the Koologi music (Dear Bob is my personal mantra song), or maybe it’s the cross-section of society that always ends up at a place like this, but I always seem to have fun watching the goings-on in the laundromat. 

Laundry is something we all have to deal with, in one way or another. We all wear clothes (or at least the vast majority of us do, in public), and those clothes get dirty. Perhaps you have a laundry service that takes care of yours, or perhaps you have your own washer and dryer in your home. Or, just maybe, you are like us and spend at least a few hours each week at a local business filled with the smells of Tide detergent and Bounce fabric softener, and the sound of clanking clothes in high-powered dryers. 

I used to believe that only a certain class of people visited these establishments. Those who either could not afford their own washer, or those who perhaps lived in conditions that did not warrant a private facility. For a long time, I associated these places with dirty clothes and dirty people. I have learned differently since we moved here. 

Maybe it was just the class of people I met at the laundromat in California, but the people here seem more… normal. They bring their kids, who play the few video games in the corner (along with my husband), they sit and converse, and some of them do the same thing I’m doing and use the wi-fi to check messages and chat online with friends. The girl at the other end looks like she’s writing a term paper, her head buried either against her laptop screen or in a textbook before her on the table.

It makes me wonder what their lives are like when they leave here, and return to the “real world”. The laundromat is like an extension of some magical plane of existence, apart from the one we usually reside on. People come here, and for a few hours, time seems to slow to a crawl for them. The rest of the world ceases to exist for them, even if only for a short time. Then they pack up their clothes, no longer smelling of sweat but instead fragrant with the scent of flowers and powder, and leave. The laundromat no longer exists for them as they return to their normal lives, and the rest of us watch, a little wistfully, as they are ushered back into the world and away from our magical portal.

Jan 30, 20111 note
4th Kingdom Forum → 4thkingdom.com

I’ve been a member of this site for years now, and still it continues to amaze me. The site is completely forum-based, and membership is on approval-only basis. The members there are intelligent, considerate, and there is a great number of friendships I count as very close that have begun on this site. There are discussions on everything from Current Events to Rants, Literature, and Art. There are also boards that are just for fun, allowing for great group conversations and forum-based games. 

If you are looking for a place to connect with like-minded people, or even just a place to stretch your own skills at debate and conversation, I would highly recommend 4th Kingdom.

Jan 28, 2011
A New Day

“The past is gone, the future isn’t here yet, and ‘right now’ is a gift. That’s why it’s called ‘the present’.”

I remember hearing that when I was younger, and not really understanding it. It was a cute saying, but it didn’t MEAN anything to me. I suppose I was wrapped up in “the future”, like most people my age. The future was where all the cool things laid in wait for me. Driving, voting (yes, I looked forward to it), even having my first drink. I missed out on a few things, looking forward to the future. I missed out on having a normal high school experience, because I was so anxious to graduate. I missed out on enjoying my learner’s permit, because I was so excited about having my license. 

Now that I’m a little older, and most of the milestones of youth are behind me, I can appreciate the present more than I could before. Each day, each moment, is special because it will never come again. Each morning, when you wake, that day is new and fresh, with nothing wrong (and nothing right!) in it yet. Your decisions each moment of the day dictate what kind of day it will be, and how you will manage to make it through to the next one. If you go into the day assuming that everything will go wrong, it probably will. Even if it doesn’t REALLY, in your mind it will be a disaster. If you wake with a sense of hope and joy, your day will be filled with challenges rather than disasters, and you will have the opportunity to live a happy life, from moment to moment. 

When I woke yesterday, I was still tired. I was in a bad mood, and did nothing to try to change that. All day I felt listless, exhausted, frustrated with life, and like something was “not right”. I went to sleep last night feeling like I had missed out on something. This morning, however, I tried to look over the good things that happened yesterday. I received my new coat in the mail, as well as my new Japanese tea cup. My coat fit, and the glass cup was beautiful and delicate. I watched one of my favorite movies, and got to spend hours playing with my new laptop. 

These things slipped my mind while I experienced them, because of the mood I was in. I felt that the day was a failure, when in fact, it was a roaring success! And all because I was in a foul mood to begin the day, I missed out on the joy of the experiences. 

Don’t let that happen to you. Wake each day with a sense of hope and joy, and the day’s experiences will be tinted thus.

Jan 25, 20111 note
WHAT IS YOUR EARLIEST HUMAN MEMORY?

I remember being very little, and our neighbors used to have “Star Trek Parties”, where someone would bring the TV out on the front lawn, set up chairs, and they’d all watch the classic Star Trek series right out there. I honestly don’t know if it’s a memory or a dream, but I remember it clearly.

Jan 25, 2011
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